By: Nikky Dhillon
I have been observing my kids for a while now , 6 years for the older one and 22 months for the younger one.
And there is no one better to learn from. I have been on this quest for learning like most adults are in this beautiful era of thought transformation.
Learning to love my self, learning to be present in the present, learning to find my purpose, learning to have better relationships, learning to deliberately create and most of all learning to be happy.
And my kids have been very instrumental in teaching me in each of these areas.
If we look at animals and kids carefully , you will observe how they are able to feel happiness and even joy in just being themselves, in just existing.
I have seen my kids get up each day excited about whats to come, content with whats already there and eager for more.
I have seen my kids never worry or plan or analyze or even put too much thought into whats happening around them. They naturally only focus on what gives them pleasure.
It is awe inspiring to watch that in them.
Yes they do have their little tantrums and melt downs but they are very short lived.
They feel their emotions completely and fully and then are able to let it go without any residue of it in them.
I am learning to do that 
Another observation is that my 6 year old and I am sure all kids only tell the good story. They are born with that.
Here is an amazing example of that –
Last year when he started kindy , on the very first day when I met his teacher, my heart sank, because in my perception she looked old school, strict not to be messed with and not the fun types.
Knowing how law of attraction works I spend the next three days changing that story and dealing with my out of alignment thoughts.
I also intuitively decided not to interfere with my sons experience of his world.
What I observed was that he was thrilled to have her as his teacher and even though over the next twelve months I heard various unpleasant stories of her from other non aligned parents, I just kept quiet and observed my son enjoying every day of school and looking forward to getting there every morning.
Infact most of the kids really enjoyed her class.
I was a frequent visitor in the class for reading groups and had to deliberately prepave a pleasant experience specially after hearing the other parents tell me stories of how the teacher yelled at the kids and parent helpers alike in class.
But my son did not have to be deliberate about his vibe, his focus on the good is his default vibe. How cool is that ?
Now in year one, he is once more with a teacher who is defined as “strict”
My son still doest know what strict means, so when he overheard another parent talk to me about this teacher being strict, he asked me what does strict mean, this was a great opportunity for me to give him the definition that serves him well. So I told him that strict means people who are particular how things are done and want it done the right way just like he does. Now he goes around telling his friends that he has a strict teacher as if its a cool thing and that she is similar to him cause he is strict too ….. makes me smile.
I feel blessed to have such wonderful and aligned children in my life. Looking forward to learning much more from them.
